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I need some advise,please help,I dont know what to do anymore...?

I have been dating my bf for almost 6 months now,and he treats me like I'm a robot.To him I don't have feelings nor do I have opinions and stuff like that,he says I do but he doesnt act like it.For example,he likes to go to an internet cafe all the time to play starcraft,sometimes I dont wanna go,cuz I feel sick or I just dont feel like being on the computer and he goes "well lets break up then" or "if you leave its over" "thats just too bad..cuz i wanna go" and I tried freaking out and yelling at him,leaving,ignoring him but it just doesnt work,like the other day i went to go see my mom while he was at the I.C and as soon as i came back he was like "yeah you're probablly cheating on me or something.."its like i cant even say anything it just doesnt matter you know?It's ok to him if hes an asshole,but its not ok when im a bitch cuz he cant handle it,but i have to sit there and take his shit.I'm just physically and emotionally tired.how do i help him??.. I just want to say thanks to everyone that took their time to reply.And I tried telling him how I feel,but he doesnt really listen he say "we'll talk about this later"..,but I can do this,I'll move on.and again thank you

Public Comments

1. The only person you can help, is yourself. Get out of this relationship.
2. You don't... you leave a man like that... actually, I wouldn't even go so far as to call him a "man"...because anyone who talks to you like that, or treats you the way he is, is not a MAN... he's trying to control you and he certainly does NOT love you because that is NOT how you show love and respect for another person. If you think that it is bad now... stick around... it will only get worse. You need to leave... and leave NOW. Don't waste your precious life time on someone like him....
3. Leave him so he'll learn his lesson...Tell him all the reasons and if he is ready to change his views and attitude that could be the time he can come back. But it's up to you to accept him.
4. you can't
5. dont help him it you how needs help NOW GET RID OF THIS ASS HOLE >>> NOW AS HE WILL PULL YOU DOWN >> you dont need him at all
6. Is this the way you want to live the rest of your life? I think it is time for you to find someone who loves you and treats you like the lady you are. I know that breaking up is hard to do but you definetely need to get on with your life without him. You may think he is the only one for you but listen when I say there are many fish in the sea. All you have to do is go out and meet one. I hope everything turns out for you.
7. you don't you help yourself. dump his ass. i know you love him but here are some words to live by... ready? POTENTIAL IS NOT REALITY if you want to be unhappy for the rest of your life stay with him. otherwise take control and know that the pain will pass.
8. LEAVE HIM. What a worthless POS! Tell him ASAP that you are better off with out him and not to call you anymore because of what a trucking loser he is! GET OUT NOW!
9. Girl...you need to step off and find someone who appreciates YOUR opinions! Who asks you waht YOU wanna do! Being selfish is totally NOT kool!
10. Leave him as soon as possible. He's a worm and a control freak. He shows you no respect at all. You deserve better.
11. We love to be loved, we love to be given importance, we love to feel loved...so if this is the case , I guess you are just fooling yourself already, this relation ship will not lead you to anyhting fruitful, it will only break your heart more..come on you are missing something here..love yourself my dear, you can only reflect better to others if you give importance to yourself..and if you love yourself then nobody can put you down anymore, no one else can protect you except yourself...go back to your senses!cheer up too!
12. omg hunny, it is not ok for him to treat you in this way i know it may hurt but mayb yuu should let him go no man or boy w.e has the right to treat a girl like this it sounds to me like you can do so much better next time he threats to end it just, say fine its over try not to get to attached to him over the next few weeks and try and stray apart about him saying " you are probley cheating on me or something " shows he has no trust for you what is a relationship without trust ? my information to you hunny is to end it no matter how much its going to hurt you will eventually come out of this as a happier person
13. dumb him..... or tell him that you can't take over anymore.... good luck
14. Sounds selfish and insecure. Can you actually imagine being married to him - forever? The way I see things is if their not marage material (whether you want to or not) their probably not the right sort of person for you. Don't be miserable all your life, move on. He obviously thinks he's doing nothing wrong so he probably won't ever change. (sorry)
15. Just go to him and tell him the way you are feeling and let him know to save the relationship he should be there for you and not to hurt you. I hope there will be compromise to make ends meet.